When I planned a Mothers Day blog series, our Mama was well. Carrying, marching, making, caring and being the leader of our family. Our Mama
is and
does everything. Energy, independence and resourcefulness is what she is. Without any reservation or hesitation, she gives.
A few weeks ago we 3 sisters became Mamas carers. The roles have reversed so fast and now our Mama needs mothering. All the love she has given is flowing back to her from friends and family. It is our turn to feed her nutritious meals, make sure she's comfortable, fluff her pillows, plait her hair and bring her flowers. It is our turn to hold her hand and hide our worries. It is our turn to stand tall.
Mama has made 4 children and in turn 6 grandchildren. Hers is a body to be celebrated, for sure. But her body has aged, as bodies do. The reproductive part of her body has fulfilled its role and is now ill and causing pain. Tomorrow we will take her to hospital for an operation. A 'procedure' that marks, in a way, the end of the youth of her body. We will nurse her through the recovery and see her back to health again, just as the first blossom, in the knowledge that this part of her journey of Motherhood is fragile. We will cherish and celebrate each moment, as each new season.
So, here I divert from the planned 'Mothers Day Goodies' blog series and invite you to celebrate Motherhood with us - in all its' joy, beauty, pain and magnificence. Motherhood IS magnificent.
Mamas are the true heroes, the makers, the marvels, the daily inventors, the force that makes this world so wonderful....so let's celebrate everyday, not just on Mothers Day.
B x